wear the trousers

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Definition

Verb phrase: - To be the person in a relationship or household who makes the important decisions and has the dominant authority; to be the one in charge.

Usage

This phrase is used to describe the person, typically within a domestic or partnership context, who holds the primary decision-making power. It often implies a contrast with another person who is perceived as having less authority.

Examples
Advanced Usage
  • The phrase can sometimes carry a slightly informal or idiomatic nuance, suggesting a dynamic where one person's authority is overt and recognized by others.
  • While traditionally and often still used regarding gender dynamics within a heterosexual relationship, its usage can extend to any partnership to indicate a clear power dynamic, regardless of gender.
Variants and Related Words
  • Call the shots (verb phrase): To be the person who makes the decisions. (e.g., )
  • Be in the driver's seat (idiom): To be in control of a situation.
Synonyms
  • Be in charge
  • Be the boss
  • Hold the reins
  • Rule the roost
Related Idioms
  • Wear the pants: This is a common variant, especially in American English, with identical meaning and usage.
    • It's no secret that she wears the pants in that relationship.
Verb
  1. exercise authority or be in charge
    • Who is calling the shots in this house?

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